Gray People Turn Off Lights

Gray people discourage other people’s dreams, judge them, humiliate them, lie to them and want to give them complexes.

They live their lives with the intention of weakening, not enriching. They say hurtful sentences no matter how other people are feeling.

Gray people turn off lights, and one of them just might be yours. The reasons ? They are not clear.

There are people who, instead of turning their pain into healing for themselves, have chosen to discourage others so that their world is in harmony with what they are feeling.

Because you cannot see their brightness or their darkness, you can only notice the harmful effect they leave on you.

There are many ways to suffocate the other person: devalue everything they do, ridicule their dreams by always advising them to throw in the towel and thus, let in the emotional corpses to echo this. “Bad energy”.

The world is full of noble and wonderful people who vibrate with life even when they have suffered beatings.

They don’t want to become the people they are not. But unfortunately, a bright person can meet many such people on their way and end up dying in spite of themselves.

And by dying out, they can turn into resentful people who then repeat the behaviors they once experienced. It is a vicious cycle of negativity and we must prevent it from reaching us.

If you are a bright person, don’t let others turn your light off

What are luminous people like? Many of us would say that they are people who make you want to smile, moderate as well as engaged in the problems of those around us.

Without the desire to always have the main role but who always end up having it in spite of themselves, in the most intimate corners, thanks to many people who confide in them thanks to their empathy and their character.

Bright people transmit peace. 

But above all, bright people do not carry a bag of reproaches, judgments, hurtful or humiliating comments on their backs.

Bright people have dreams, adapt to their surroundings without letting social conventions crowd them out. And most importantly: they don’t want to end their life not having realized their dreams but with experiences to tell.

If they perceive that the other person is also fighting for the same thing, they are not competing or envying them. They simply choose her as a companion to everyone. Bright people encourage and support others because they rejoice in their joys.

Your best weapons to keep the light

To prevent your light from going out when you’re in trouble or someone tries to turn it off at some point in your life, there are a few strategies you can adopt that will serve as protection:

• Ignore: Don’t confront yourself or try to demonstrate anything. If you hear comments that want to discourage you, don’t spend energy convincing others that they are wrong. You need this energy to continue on your way.

• Surround yourself with people who have the same values ​​as you: You will be able to meet very different people throughout your life, but if you know someone who has the same values ​​as you, the road will not be so difficult.
• Stay away from dramas: Stay away from people who instigate dramas, even with the little vicissitudes of life. The stigma that others form should not dominate you and guide what you do.

• Practice humor: Gray people do not tolerate humor because for them it is a signal of danger and negativity. So don’t be stingy with smiles. What humor has united, society cannot separate.
  
• Believe in your ideas: Someone once said that if a person doesn’t fight for his ideas, it’s either that they are worthless, or the person is worthless. So, if you believe that your ideas are worth it because we can live with more freedom and joy thanks to them, do not doubt it.

• Don’t measure success for money, reputation or stability: In life there is no answer, there are only stories. Make yours meaningful to you, without measuring yourself against established parameters.
• If someone judges you, lend them your shoes : Remember that there will always be people willing to judge your life choices without caring about the circumstances you have faced. But these people are nothing in your life and if they are important… why do you continue to allow them to be?
• Trust your charm: Trust your charm and the way you do things, but with humility and without believing that you have nothing more to learn.

What if you feel your light has gone out?

Fortunately, in life we ​​are not just what happens to us or what we believe we are.

Personality is built throughout life and it is true that some experiences change, but only as a transforming change, not as something unchanging and fixed.

If you have lost your dreams for everything and some people you have known have hurt you more than you could have imagined, you are allowed to feel weird and sad for a while, but if you lose faith. and you let go of your dreams, it will be difficult for you to find them and give meaning to your existence. 

It would be great to try again. Not to let others take away your dreams, your little ways of enjoying life, which are unique.

Don’t let these gray people make you lose the meaning of your existence. They’ve already ruined theirs so ask yourself: do you want to be the next person?